Sunday, May 6, 2012

Congratulations Brittnie




Wow...I can't believe she is actually a college graduate!  I have not seen a smile on that face that large forever. She deserves to be happy and proud of herself.  I know we are way proud of her!  It still seems like yesterday that I graduated with her inside of my belly - so she actually walked the stage at SUU twice as a graduate.  Congratulations sweetheart...be safe in Japan

Sunday, April 29, 2012

All Are Safely Home

Our house is now a full home again.  We went from having jus the boys at home to having all four children back and it is wonderful.  Well, Boyd is not sure about that as he had to give up his room for the girls, but I think it is great.  I love sitting every night with all of my family, going to church together, playing, laughing, and just sitting together.  It is great!  For some reason the house seems so much smaller to me now but that could be cause the kids are bigger and take more room.  I have lost my garage as it is now a storage unit for all the stuff from college but I have not parked inside for a couple years now anyway.  If it means they are all here, it is fine.  I worry about the girls being home with no social life here, but they seem to be happy.

Cortnie was so excited to come home last weekend.  I flew to Salt Lake to be able to drive back with her so she was not alone.  I did not expect to have to get up at 3:00 a.m. to help her finish cleaning her apartment before check out at 8:00.  I should have known better after last year, but my hopes were up (and then were crushed).  We managed to get it done though and then spent the rest of the day resting before the big drive.  She is going to work again at Payless Shoes until she goes on her mission this fall.  We get to start on the paperwork really soon and turn those papers in the first of July.  That is only like two months away - it does not seem real.  I am excited for her but also sad too.  Selfish for myself but know that she will be an awesome missionary and wants to serve so bad.

This week we leave for Cedar for graduation - I can't believe I will be at one of my childrens college graduation. It seems like just yesterday I was graduating while pregnant with Brittnie and now she is going to be walking the stage in her cap and gown.  Where has all the time gone?  Where is that little baby girl that I gave birth too just two months after recieving my diploma?  She is now a beautiful young woman whom is so strong and so wonderful.  She leaves for Japan in 12 days for a study abroad program.  I will worry the whole time she is gone as it is a foreign country and you never know what happens there.  I can't deny her the right to go though, she has worked so hard to get there.  I am excited for what she will learn and what she will see. 

Our lives are always busy.  Work has been so crazy and I am so tired of working 45 - 50 hours  a week.  Something needs to be done cause I can't continue that way.  I am ready to go back to my four days and have some down time for myself and with my family.  Hopefully soon.....at least I have a few extra days off this week for graduation.  Other than that, we are good.  Boyd turns 16 in a couple of weeks and wants to drive alone but he is not ready yet. Skyler keeps my hoping as he wants to be grown up but yet is still my little boy.  As for Rob and I, we are very happy parents and best friends.  I miss him when he is gone and long to spend all my time with him.  He makes me happy and gives me so much.  Life is good....

Saturday, March 17, 2012

A Great Year...so far

Can you believe it is already the middle of March. Time seems to speed by as each year comes. Sometimes I wonder if I will ever be able to board the train before it takes off. Life....so busy yet so wonderful. We are truly blessed.

Can I remember anything outstanding about our year so far?....not really. I just know that I am so happy and love life. I have the most amazing husband and he truly is my best friend. I will say that we have not been home many weekends together so far this year. He has been at lots of airshows, helping friends move or I have been away too. I am so glad our weekend trips are finally over. We can not settle down and enjoy being together ----- and we get to work in our yard!! I know that Rob can hardly wait for that bonding time.

We have Brittnie living back home with us now as she was not able to secure a job in Cedar and we could not afford to pay for her apartment as a storage unit. She kicked her brother out of her bedroom and he is now back in with Skyler. Boyd was not too happy about all of that. In fact, he wanted us to set up a bedroom for Brittnie in the garage. Isn't he so loving? It is fun having her home but it is never quiet now. The minute she comes home from work, the teasing starts. The funny think is, her brothers egg it on so they can't complain when she teases them. She has worked hard to find a job and actually had four offers at one time. She is trying so hard to earn the money needed for her trip to Japan in May. She even did dirty janitorial work. For now though, she is working in the afternoons at charter school and will start this week working for an eye doctor. It is nice to see her working and I think she is loving the paychecks.

Brittnie and I were able to go to Orem for my nephews wedding in February and that was wonderful. There is nothing comparable to a temple wedding. To see a bride and groom kneel across the alter to be sealed for time and eternity is tear jerking. I look forward to the day as a mother when I can witness that for my own children. It was great to spend those couple of days with my family just relaxing and having fun. We even went to my niece's baptism while we were there so it was awesome. I wish I could be there right now as my mother just had another shoulder surgery to repair the first surgery she had that fell apart. She is finally out of rehab and everyone has been assigned shifts when they are available to help take care of her. My wonderful daughter, Cortnie, has offered to take my spot and fill in whenever she can. She loves to take care of her grandparents and is such a help to them. Now to just get mom healthy enough to go on vacation with all of us in June.

The boys, well, they are boys. They love to play electronic games and watch TV. The weather is so perfect outside right now that I hate to see them stay in the house all the time. Boyd is getting better at driving even though he still scares me. To think he is suppose to have his license in two months is really scary - but they all grow up.

We are in Panaca right now for the weekend visiting Rob's parents. We don't do a whole lot while we are here so we bring stuff to keep us busy. Rob's father can not do much anymore so we just try to stay close to visit with him. Mom does all that she can to take care of him but I worry that it is wearing her out too. How we love them. They gave me the best gift anyone ever could and that is my husband. They raised a righteous son and taught him to honor me and love me. For that , I will be forever grateful.

So, life is good. We love to help people and love to be with our friends. I look forward to the time with Cortnie can come home for the summer too and then we can all be together again. My house is not complete when there is an empty chair.....

Sunday, January 22, 2012

Great end to 2011

Yes, I am only about three weeks into the new year, but so far it has been crazy and I have not yet had time to write. 2011 was a wonderful year for us. We are so blessed and had so many blessings giving to us last year. I can not even begin to tell you all that we have.....I would be writing all day and never be able to stop. I am so grateful for all that we have been given and that we are healthy and happy. Let me recap the last little while .....

Brittnie is officially a college graduate...it actually says so on her college transcript now. I still can not believe it. Now what?? I am sure she imagined that she would be married and having babies by the time she graduated, but life does not seem to be that way for her. She is still trying to figure out what her Heavenly Father wants her to do but I think part of her is afraid to ask Him that question. In the meantime, we moved her back home yesterday. Boyd is not very happy about giving up his room and moving back in with Skyler, but he is being a trooper about it. I have mixed feelings. I love having her home but I worry so much that she will not have a life here. She has applied to be a substitute school teacher so hopefully will start to get phone calls for that. She is going to Japan in May for three weeks so it will be hard for her to find a job now that will give her the month off. If she subs, it will not be an issue. I just hate to see her sit around all day with nothing to do and no one to talk too. There are no kids here her age (let alone boys) so that leaves her with no social life. Bitter sweet to have her home...just hope she can figure it all out soon.

Cortnie finished out strong last semester at BYU and had her best one yet. She was worried about getting new roommates, but has fallen in love with the two she has. They are both freshman so she plays mother hen to them and helps them around campus. She is so happy when I talk to her at night and it was so great having her here for a few days over Christmas. Our home was complete with her here and it was wonderful. I miss her terribly. It is almost time for her to start her mission papers and that too is bitter sweet. I think everyday "how will I do this when Cortnie leaves" but I knwo that it will all work out with our Heavenly Father's help. We had a wonderful Christmas with her home and an enjoyable week in Utah after. I am looking forward to seeing her again in two weeks.

Boyd is Boyd. He is doing much better with his driving and school. I will say that I think he is the most like me. He worries way too much and cries so easily. He loves to give me hugs and protect me and that makes a mother proud. He is not embarrased to have me around and tries so hard to make us all happy. He was given his fathers bow for Christmas which before that was his grandfathers. He takes such care of that bow....and he is pretty darn good.

Skyler has grown in the last month. He was able to recieve the priesthood on the same calendar date of his baptism, which is also his grandfathers birthday. He was so excited to pass the sacrament the first time. The bishopric made sure he could reach the bench before church started and he could so no stool was needed. He did forget to wait for the cups as he passed the water on the first couple of rows, but he did not spill on anyone. He is so proud to pass that sacrament and his young mens leader says he has really settled down. We had 40 people at his ordination and it was quite the night. I am so grateful we did it in Utah where his family could all be there. Christmas was kind to him too as far as gifts, but he did get one he did not want...the stomach flu. He woke us up sick on Christmas morning about 2 and puked all night. He was suppose to talk in church that day which he was not able to do. We waited for him to feel somewhat better before opening the presents, but he was just not well that day. I felt so sorry for him. Luckily he was good the next day and no one else got it.

We had a wonderful Christmas and vacation. Christmas is always my favorite time of the year. I am proud to say I spend way less this year and everyone was still happy. The kids got new games and clothes and lots of love. It was fun to watch them buy for each other with a five dollar budget. Creativity works good that way. We had a great time with our relatives but I don't remember really doing much. There was no snow so we could not go sledding this year but we laughed and ate like we always do. I left missing them so much again - especially my daughter. It is hard to drive away and leave her there. I am so grateful for the emphasis the church puts on the family. They are the most important thing in my life. I would give up everything for them and they are whom I want to spend all my time with. They make me happy.

Here is to another great year!! 2o12, here we come\.....

Sunday, December 18, 2011

I am not getting old!!

So, my husband tells me the other day that it has hit him that he is getting old. I told him that he might be but that I was not....I am still 29. It is amazing that I can be only 29 when my baby is turning twelve this week and will soon get the priesthood. He has been told they will be providing a stool for him to stand on to be able to reach the sacrament table. He sang for the last time today with the primary children and he looked like he was one of the kids in junior primary. Poor kid, such a short small body. He makes up for it is spirit though.

Rob also feels old because our oldest finished her college career this week. She finished her last final on Wednesday afternoon and is now officially a college graduate with a BS degree. She will not walk for the graduation ceremony until May but she is officially graduated. What will she do now? She has no idea. She is taking a couple of weeks off to enjoy the holidays and will figure it out from there. Hopefully a job is in her future and she will be able to earn money - and hopefully that will not be here in Bullhead. I would LOVE to have her here with us (Boyd hopes note as he does not want to share a room again) but there is nothing here for her. She needs to be where she can have a social life and earn a decent living. It is just hard to believe that my baby girl is a college gradaute.

So yes Rob, you are getting old but your dear sweet wife never will be old. She will always be as young as her children. I love you

Sunday, November 27, 2011

Give Thanks

What a wonderful week! So much to be thankful for and so grateful I have been so blessed. I am thankful that we have jobs to provide for our family. I am thankful that we have a wonderful family - four beautiful children who are GREAT kids. I am thankful for my husband whom is also my best friend. I am thankful that Tina and her family drove such a long way (just ask her kids...it was forever) to com spend Thanksgiving with us. I am thankful for wonderful parents whom taught me all I know. I am thankful for my health and for my life. I am thankful to have the true gospel in my home and for the priesthood that is within its walls. I am thankful for the sunshine and for the warm home that I have. AND...last but not least, I am thankful that we got home in one piece today from church as it was Boyd's first time driving. So much to be thankful for.....

Monday, October 24, 2011

My Hawaiian Dream Vacation

I just returned from the most amazing trip of my life with my husband, best friend Tina (my sister) and her husband. In fact, it was so amazing that none of us wanted to return home. We all missed our children, but we did not miss the real life. I don't remember the last time I was so relaxed and carefree. It is hard to put into words the feelings I had while we were there and still now. I get very emotional to think about it. I will never be able to repay Rick and Tina for making the dream of my lifetime come true. I only look forward to the next dream we can create.

Our trip started on the island of Oahu after a very long flight across the waters. I will admit I was very nervous about the flight. I am okay if i don't think about the fact that I am thousands of feet in the air, but that is hard not to do for five and a half hours. Thank goodness Rob was there to hold my hand. We headed over the the Polynesian Cultural Center and Hawaii temple as soon as we got there. Of course, that was after we watched Rick pull the handle completely out of the suitcase in the airport. I will never forget the look on his face - I wish I had my camera out. He walked forward with this pole in his hand while the suitcase lay on the floor. It was so hilarious. We were lucky enough to find duck tape to put the pole back in so they could use it the rest of the trip. With milk almost $6 a gallon, I can imagine what a suitcase would have cost.

The temple was so beautiful as they all are. It was just like in all the pictures...up on this hill with so many colors surrounding it. From there we went to the PCC for an afternoon of shows, a luau and an evening adventure. The culture of the people from the islands is amazing to learn. I think the men from Tonga were my favorite - and the Japan dude they had beating the drum. They really do pound those drums like they are made of steele. The muscles on their arms are enormous. I was looking forward to a great Hawaiian luau and this one was okay. I was disappointed a little in the food - not many choices and I was so geared up for tons of fresh fruit - especially pinaeapple. It was still the luau with the deep pit pig and poi (which I did not try). The show afterwards was really good - at least the parts I saw. Remember, it is now almost one in the morning and we have been up since six. We were all worn out.

The next day was spent at the Pearl Harbor Memorial Sites. One stands in awe as they look down at the Arizona and realize so many lifes were lost that day and buried there with the ship. To look at the names of the men and women on the wall is incredible. They had no chance to react or get off the ship. They had no chance to call home and tell their children good-bye or that they loved them. They gave their lives for us that day. We also visited the air museum where the story was told again of how Japan stole our freedom for the one day. I grateful I am to be an American and for those who fight every day for me.

That night we headed to the island of Kaua'i which I am told is the most beautiful of all. After driving down roads that took us right to the ocean and to a grocery store to buy a few days of food, we finally came to our condo. From the road, you drive along and see flames on bamboo poles lighting a driveway - our entrance. Tina went to check us in and came out to tell us "you know the hotel lobbies you see in grand movies, that is what we have here.". It was so unreal. you took an escalator down to the lobby which was surrounded by an open garden. Fish ponds, flowers, trees, frogs, ...the whole works. Mirrors on all sides (which a certain duck visited every night to talk to his friends - which was really himself). A place that I would never be able to afford to stay. Got to love those time shares. Our rooms were just as nice. We had king size beds, balconies (even though our view was of the roof from the floor below), a small kitchen, and all the comforts of home. The hotel sported its own private beach as well as a huge swimming pool complete with elephant shooting foutains and four jacquzzis. Again, it was like living in a dream world.

So, we were on this beautiful island at a gorgeous hotel, and we had a list a mile long of things we wanted to do. We were only able to spend about one day on our hotel beach enjoying the water and the sea turtle that tried to take Rob out when the waves came in. Poor guy could not help it though, he was missing a fin. We did spend many a night in the jacquizzi's though relaxing and laughing. I laughed so much this vacation...it was awesome. We had adventures from zip lining, to kayaking, to hiking, to scuba diving, a cruise and a helicopter tour. My favorites had to be the helicopter and the zip line. In fact, the helicopter tour caught me so off guard. I started to cry as our pilot played some song with the words miracle in it as he flew ever so close to the waterfalls and mountain tops. I was in awe that our Heavenly Father could and would create something so beautiful for me. He loves little old me enough to give me this beautiful world. I will have to say the Napeli coast was much more interesting from the air than from the cruise. The catamaran cruise was way too long and way too bumpy. However, the pool of porpoises we came across was delighting...I felt like a little kid wanting to touch the dolphins. Rob and Rick enjoyed the snorkeling off the boat, but Tina and I decided we were fine right where we were.

The zip line is awesome! Everyone said that I would have to be pushed off the ledge in order for me to go. However, I think Rick was more nervous that I was. We had a course that included nine zip lines. Each one was unique. It is a strange feeling to suddenly have your feet not underneath you anymroe and you are flying. You pray the line will hold then suddenly you are on solid ground again. To look down from those zip lines gives you a few you don't see from the hikes. You see rivers and streams and colors- so many colors. I will have to say, I am proud to be a zipliner. In fact, the last zip line was a race and I beat my sister across. It was four football fields long and 15 stories from the zip line to the valley below. It was awesome.

I am so glad that over the past year, I have put my body in shape. All those early morning or late night runs paid off. We hiked the canyons and I was not even tired. We went to waterfalls, and cliffs covered by clouds. I did not especially hiking right along the rim or Rob trying to climb down to the waterfall below, but the view was breathtaking. Again, something you can not put into words.

My favorite times were just being together sitting and talking or shopping. I loved all the activities, but I loved the bonding I was able to do with my sister, her husband and my bestest friend....Rob. We laughed and cried; we joked and played; we shopped and laughed some more. I think Tina and I made a great news story when we tried to snorkel while Rob and Rick were scuba diving. People on the beach were telling us to walk backwards with our fins on as it is easier....but it was more fun trying to lift your foot from the sand to take a step forward. We finally just took them off since we were not going out far anyway. We proceded to snorkel...by sticking our faces in the water while our feet were on the ground. We had to prove to our husbands that we did get in the water and use our snorkel gear. It was an expensive ten minute excursion. We finally decided it would be more fun to go shopping and get ice cream...so that is what we did.

I will never forget this trip or the feelings it brough to my heart. I believe my marriage has been revived and we are close again. I feel so bonded with my sister. How my heart wishes we could always be close (along with the rest of our families). However, I think being apart makes times like this more special. The islands of Hawaii have definitely won a place in my heart. I pray that someday I will be able to go again and be revived. In fact, I would leave tonight if I could.

Aloha.....

(PS...the site did not want to upload my photos, but you can find those on facebook)